The First Time I Ever Saw
Your Face
By Rev. Eric Strachan
Twenty-one year old Julie (not her real name) asked the attendant
in the abortion clinic if she could have a few moments to herself
before the abortion procedure began.
Tears streaming down her face, she reached over to the cup of water
on the adjoining bedside table. Placing it over her abdomen, she
then tipped the cup. As the cool water ran down her bare midriff,
Julie became a surrogate priest, ministering both the sacrament
of baptism and the last rites.
She sputtered out, “I baptize you in the name of the Father,
the Son, and the Holy Spirit.” For the baby in its first trimester
in her womb, it was a baptism into death.
Julie is just one of the many Canadian woman who have gone this
route since 1969 when abortions were legalized. Since that date,
about 2.5 million babies here in Canada have lost their lives. Here
in Canada, a baby’s life comes to an end in the first, second,
or third trimester of pregnancy, approximately every five minutes
of every day of the year.
Had Julie become pregnant in 2003, wise counsel may have directed
her to get a 4-D sonogram. The 4-D sonogram (another name for an
ultrasound) is the latest state of the art technology from General
Electric, the company founded 125 years ago by Thomas Edison, the
inventor of the light bulb. Distinct from the normal 2-D ultrasound
that many mothers have had, GE’s latest innovation shows a
mother a highly detailed coloured motion picture of the baby in
her womb.
Typically, medical professionals minister ultrasounds after the
15th week of pregnancy. Most abortions are performed within the
first 13 weeks. The new 4-D sonogram allows mothers to see and hear
a beating heart at six weeks, and then at 10 weeks they can see
with absolute clarity the baby sucking its thumb. The moving coloured
images are unmistakably clear and distinct, like watching television.
Pre-natal maternal bonding that normally occurs when an expectant
mother first feels her baby moving within, around 15 weeks, occurs
far sooner with GE’s latest technology. It’s this bonding
within the early stages of the first trimester that has caused many
women with an unwanted pregnancy to change their mind and opt for
life.
Young women like 17-year-old Stephanie Monegro. The high school
dropout was two months pregnant when she went to a Crisis Pregnancy
Center. There she was asked if she would like to have a 4-D sonogram.
“When I saw my first sonogram of the baby and I burst into
tears, I thought, why would I want to kill something that is living?”
(Christianity Today, March 2003, “Saved By Sonogram”)
Indeed when women who are considering abortion see a sonogram and
the indisputable scientific evidence of live action within the womb,
Shari Richard, a pioneer in helping Pregnancy Centers with sonograms
says, “Sixty percent of her patients choose not to have an
abortion.” (Focus On The Family, January 2003, “A Picture
Is Worth A Thousand Words”)
Although General Electric did not develop the 4-D sonogram for the
benefit of the pro-life movement, their state of the art technology
has done just that. The commercial they air to promote their invention
shows the face of a woman seeing her baby for the first time. While
background music plays The First Time I Ever Saw Your Face, an announcer
says, “When you see your baby for the first time on the new
GE 4-D Ultrasound system, it really is a miracle.”
Many of us don’t need General Electric to tell us that what
is conceived in the womb is a miracle. Truly it is.
One hundred and twenty-five years ago when Thomas Edison invented
the incandescent light bulb, he brought light to the darkness.
Today his company is again bringing light to the darkness by helping
pregnant women make informed decisions based on all the evidence
and wise counsel available to them. Today, women in their first
trimester of pregnancy can see with their own eyes sacred life within
the womb.
Listen to the heartbeat. Look at the sucking thumb. Cast your eyes
on that tiny little face, Mom. It’s the first time you’ve
ever seen her. You can watch her develop throughout your pregnancy.
You will never forget these moments.
She’s absolutely beautiful, isn’t she? Still in utero,
but very, very much alive! Some day you’ll say to her as you
hold her on your lap, “Honey, I’ll never forget the
first time I ever saw your face!”
This article is reprinted with permission of the author and The
Pembroke Daily Observer where it appeared on May 17, 2003.
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